Wow. So much has already happened since my last update! I have been serving in the office of course, but within the past week or so I have gotten to be out on the field more. I have gotten to meet more people in multiple villages, which has been great. Especially since I am learning and practicing Spanish. I have been more confident in initiating conversations and letting myself make mistakes in speaking. That really is the only way I will learn. I know I will learn if I continue to use what I know in as many situations as possible.

I got to practice a little bit with a woman named Luisa, who is from a village called Catulaca. She came to help prepare meals for workers with Melyssa and I. There were two days of work on the hunger farm that required men from multiple villages to come out and serve. Over time, it is our hope to see leaders take it upon themselves to care for their communities by running the hunger farm. We had about twenty men come and work for two days so that they can earn food, but also work for future families in need.  It was a special time for me to get to know Luisa, as much as I could anyways. She is one of the sweetest women I have ever met, and would continue to talk to me even if I couldn’t respond. We would just laugh and carry on with cooking. By the end of the day, I know I made a friend. It was really special just to be doing an everyday task with her. That’s what I’ve realized since being here. Walking with them through the day-to-day tasks mean more to them than anything else we could give.

Another special memory that I have is when I celebrated Children’s day in a village called Cenicera. This is a village that is actually the closest to town, but ironically the poorest of all of them. Even more of a problem is the breakdown of families in villages, including this one. I was informed that the children here don’t get shown affection much, so it was really awesome that the village hosted their own celebration for the children. We got to simply show up and celebrate with them. I really love children and have never had a difficult time connecting with them. There were many sweet moments I shared with a little girl named Stephanie, who wanted to sit in my lap the entire time. It truly is the little things that go a long way for kids, but my heart was also happy to spend that time with her and a few others.

Two amazing events took place in a village called Chimis, which was a village that I had never met before. The first day that I went with Shannon and Edith, we were speaking to three couples that were planning to get married the following weekend. Here it is not considered a priority or even a possibility for people to get married in the villages. The church in Chimis was ready to split about a year ago because of the disagreements within it. They fought over who should be leading. Our ministry lightly intervened and has been teaching those who want to lead what the Bible requires of them. This teaching has led these couples to get married so that they can make those covenant vows in front of God, and be credible leaders in the church. More importantly, it has led nineteen people to be saved and baptized. It was a humbling few days to see a church that was once divided, celebrate together. My favorite part was getting to walk with two small boys back up the mountain after the baptisms. That made for an interesting hike! Haha. They each held a hand of mine as we navigated around mud and steep rocks. One of them would slip and I would have to let go of one that was safe to keep the other one up. They would grab my hand again as soon as my hand was free. It was so sweet how much they wanted me to just walk with them. It painted a simple picture of how God loves us and how patient He is with us when we slip and fall, let go of His hand, and how much it pleases Him when we reach out for Him again. Those boys stole my heart!!!

There are many other moments I could share. Little moments like walking up the mountain with those small children, preparing meals (basically learning how to cook at all), and hugging new people within the first moment of meeting them. That’s what I love about people here. Those that want friendships and want to be close, will definitely reach out for it. Many are vulnerable and compassionate, and choose relationships over tasks. Their culture is rich with emotion and boldness. I love so many aspects of it and it’s hard to narrow it down to a statement. I’m thankful for the opportunities to learn and grow from them. I may have been called here to serve, but in many ways, I am also growing to be more like Christ. I can’t do it without relationships here. I can’t learn more about God without learning how to love people. There’s so much to learn from people here.

I am also thankful to have somebody here who is willing to teach me Spanish! Cynthia has already proved to be a strict teacher, but only because she knows that I want to learn it. I’m so glad that she wants to hold me accountable to study and really apply myself. I also cannot express my gratitude for the team I get to be apart of. They have really encouraged me and have made me feel welcome here. They are giving me opportunities to serve and learn. They have asked each of us to set six goals for the next couple of months, and I am praying and thinking on what I should be focused on while here. It’s easy to float around and just do the tasks needed, but I also want to invest my time wisely.

One goal that I have is to of course learn Spanish! At least enough to be able carry on more in-depth conversations. Especially if I am to ever share the Gospel to others. This is a need of mine. Please pray for me to stay focused and work hard amongst other things I will be doing here. The second goal I have is to be more involved with the school here. Not only do I love kids, but I also have a desire to encourage the youth. I know how hard it is to find your way through those years. I hope to be able to start a bible study and/or mentor young girls there. That will take me being around the school more and developing those relationships naturally. I look forward to making new friends there. Those are the two goals that are set in stone for now. I have one small one like “go to the store by yourself and speak the Spanish you know”, because I have been very timid to make myself look stupid here. But really, making mistakes is the only way I can learn to speak it. I actually didn’t want to share something that I had written a few weeks ago, but I feel that it definitely shows the struggle within myself.

“Fear is claustrophobic. That’s the word I kept thinking of in reference to how I’ve felt the past few weeks. I couldn’t put my finger on why I’ve felt that way though. On-going, churning anxiety because everything is different. I speak a little Spanish, enough to get where I need to go or to ask somebody a few questions, but I’ve never really understood the fear and frustration of not being apart before. I thought I had, but I truly haven’t until I got here. Fear really is claustrophobic. It won’t let up, won’t let you breathe, and will tell you anything to keep you where it wants you. It’ll weaken you until you wonder why you’re even doing what you’re doing. I’ve been feeling so small. Though it isn’t true, fear is hand-in-hand with pride, and pride can convince you of anything. It’s not comfortable, so I’m not made for it. It’s not easy, so maybe I wasn’t meant to do it. I feel completely wrong for this place, so maybe I was wrong. But you know, I’ve come to realize that that’s exactly why I’m here. It seems foolish that I’m here trying to build relationships with people who speak a different language, when I’m still afraid of building relationships back home. It’s completely uncomfortable, which makes me angry inside, leading to pride that says, ‘Resist change.’ Once I realize what my heart is saying, I’m disappointed in myself for the feelings and for being ungrateful. But I know God doesn’t even want me to dwell on the feelings or the fact that I’m uncomfortable. He doesn’t want me to give up because it’s hard or because I’ve stopped believing. He just wants me to turn to Him and say, ‘I believe’. I’ve learned that it’s as simple as that sometimes. Repentance is changing your mind, not wiping yourself clean. It’s always a choice. Everything comes down to whether you believe in God or not. For my situation, I believe. I believe because I know only He frees me from the fear. I know His heart and know that He’s already overcome it all. I just have to believe.”

Getting to the heart of it (or really of me), I have wrestled with many different emotions already. Though this has been hard at times, it has proven to be a really great thing. My weaknesses truly have been a vessel for God to share His grace with me. My dependency on Him has increased tremendously because of the many things I have had to let go of since I’ve arrived. The things that I have had to let go of are all the ways in which I have tried to plan out my life. There has been complete surrender here in my heart. I am working on my walk with Him, ensuring that I acknowledge my need for Him every moment of every day. I have learned that I can do nothing apart from Him, and cannot trust my feelings to lead me. I have had to place my hope completely in Him concerning my struggles here, my longing to see my family and friends, and the future. Everything is about Him. Pray for me when you think about it, because I need all the prayers I can get. God is up to many things here, and I’m so thankful to be a small part of it. Above all, I am learning to let go and to not resist change. To learn, I have to be transparent.

Published September 27, 2017

It’s been two weeks and a day since I have moved to Honduras. I actually had an update written up days ago for people to get a glimpse of the things I’ve been doing here, but I failed to really explain a lot about the culture here. I know that those are the questions that people have, so I’ll do my best to explain things as I write posts.

Gracias is one of the safest, if not the safest town, in Honduras. The president of Honduras is from Gracias so there is a bunch of police and military here. Where I live is pretty safe because it is gated and the landlords are extremely sweet. That is all a blessing in itself. This really is not a difficult town to live in, but it is still very different. I personally don’t feel comfortable going places by myself for one obvious reason. I don’t know how to speak the language well. In many ways, that is extremely frustrating but it pushes me to want to learn too.

What’s awesome about this town is that it is central to so many villages that surround it. It serves as a base for the ministry to take care of the hunger farm for people here, run the radio station that shares the Gospel, and host American churches that come down to serve and minister to the villages. Gracias is a really special town with many hidden gems.

So to start with what I’ve been doing the past couple of weeks, I’ll go over what I’ve been doing to help the ministry. Basically, I’ve helped them catch up on recording expenses for multiple accounts. It took some time, but now everything is nearly caught up. Other than organizing and tracking expenses from teams that have come down, I helped to create the staff meeting agenda, put together a newsletter, and record events for social media. There is still much that I’m being trained for but it’s already been a busy few weeks! I’m very glad to be helping with these simple tasks that free them up.

We also had Jimmy Storrie from Life Recovered come down to host a retreat for the team. This retreat consisted of us learning more about our own personalities and our team personality so that we can better understand and communicate with one another. We also read a book together called The Way of the Heart. It’s a book about the resting in God spiritually and it shaped the way I have viewed prayer and true rest. I learned so much and have already grown. I feel as if I’ve been given the tools I need to grow more into what God is calling me to do. I’ve learned that the beginning of serving God truly is resting in Him. We cannot do anything without Him, so learning to take a day to bring it all back to Him has been eye-opening. I’d encourage any believer to read this book.

Basically, it’s been pretty busy. It feels as if it’s flying by. I’m glad to have the busy days doing the day-to-day things, but I’m also really excited about being on the field too. Something that I’m really looking forward to is getting to meet villages around that I haven’t gotten to meet. I’m more than ready to get to know the local children here. They are so precious and I hope to be able to have a part in children’s ministry here. I’m ready to see the kids I met last summer in San Isidro!

Speaking of kids, today was really special! One of my roommates, Ellie, is a sign language interpreter who uses that gift to minister to the deaf community around here. She worked on promoting an event today for weeks! All so that she could meet those who are deaf and teach them and their families how to sign. Many of the deaf here do not have anybody to sign to them because they are not educated, therefore, many people start off not knowing any language at all. Today we got to see Ellie in action, and it was incredible. About twenty deaf children and adults arrived with their families to learn LESHO, which is the Honduran sign language. This is different from American sign language (ASL), meaning that Ellie knows four languages and has to frequently switch languages during interactions. What touched me the most was watching the group of older men learn certain signs for the first time! Seeing the kids also learn was a joy.  I hardly have words to explain how I felt knowing that some of them finally get to learn how to communicate with others for the first time. Overall, this event was humbling. Not only is this need overlooked in Honduras, but it is also overlooked in America. It is something for me to be mindful of and to continue to pray for.

I want to thank each of you who have prayed for me! Much of why I’m here is because of the prayers of other people who love and believe in this ministry, so I’m also asking that you would pray for 61 Isaiah Ministries. It’s lead by some of the most humble and faithful people that I have ever met. I’m grateful to be of service here in a town that I love with a ministry that I love. I can’t wait to share stories about new people and places soon!

Published September 2, 2017

Ten days since I have moved to Gracias and I already feel as if it’s moving so fast. This summer before I moved was overwhelming and crazy busy. There wasn’t a lot of time to really sit back and process everything. Even when I got that time to process, I felt restless. There was this constant need to be busy. The moments I got with the Lord alone, I felt as if my prayers weren’t thorough enough, especially as I was about to move away for a mission. I wondered a lot if I was truly ready to do what the Lord has wanted me to do here. I felt ill-equipped and scattered across the board.

So my first week was really strange, a little more difficult than I expected since this is my fourth time to be here. I felt like it would’ve taken more time for things to sink in, but that wasn’t the case. I spent last week trying to just feel comfortable anywhere. When I say comfortable, I mean within myself. I just felt really out of place and afraid to just be. Change freaks me out at first, especially knowing that this is what I call home now for a while.

After about two days of getting rested and situated, I began helping sort through receipts and organizing certain accounts for the organization. There’s still work to be done for sure. The team has had a crazy busy summer, so when I arrived, they were all exhausted. This is why the ministry had requested for Jimmy Storrie to come down to facilitate a short retreat for our team. He is a counselor that leads a ministry called “Life Recovered”. I will go into more detail about the ministry as I explain. For me, I felt as if I didn’t really need the retreat, or at least not as much as the rest of the team. I thought that it was more for them that have been working extensively to serve churches from the states and many other facets of ministry. However, the point of this retreat was not to vacation or to get away from work. It was an awesome time of spiritual growth.

The book we read over the two days is called “The Way of the Heart” by Henri J. M. Nouwen. I would recommend every believer to read it. It changed my entire outlook on the Sabbath and prayer. Really, it gave me the tools I’ve needed for so long and has freed me up from the bonds of having to perform or do enough. It was exactly what I needed to read to learn how to truly rest in Him, and enjoy it. Not restlessly praying and then feeling guilty when other things are on my mind or half-heartedly reciting what prayer I know I need to pray. There was nothing but me and Him and it was exactly what I needed. Many questions and frustrations that I have had with communicating with God dissipated. I couldn’t have asked for a better start of this year in Honduras.

We left our phones with Jimmy and just enjoyed the Lord individually. When we got together, we learned about each other’s personalities and our team personality. We learned how to communicate with one another and learned about our own gifts. I have learned so much about the team I’m working with, which I think will be so beneficial as conflicts arise. No family, ministry, or Godly organization is perfect, which is why it is important to communicate openly and be transparent. I feel as if we have been given the tools to operate better as a team.

Today Jimmy hosted his ministry conference with local pastors around Gracias to educate them on how to take care of themselves in every way. I think it’s incredible what Life Recovered is doing to pour into ministers, leaders, pastors, etc. Many of the Honduran pastors had never heard a teaching on it before and responded very positively to it. For once, they got to learn how to take instead of always giving. After the conference, many stayed for lunch before having to travel back to their separate villages. I got to meet all of them and was very glad to!

Overall, my heart is just happy. It’s that simple. I have been incredibly encouraged and am grateful to serve the team. What I’m looking forward to next is to meet many of the villages around. There are so many I have yet to meet and I can’t wait. For now, we strategize, we plan, and the team that has been running on empty in many ways gets to recoup for the next tasks at hand. I’m just glad to be here to help in any way that I can.

Published August 29, 2017

Well, I will be moving to Honduras in just three days….. It doesn’t feel real to me yet. This is a mission I have prayed and thought about for over a year now. I am beyond excited for many reasons.

The past few days I have been helping with a sale to raise some more funds. I will be honest, it’s been a very long week but there’s something about working alongside a close friend that makes it so worth it. (other than the fact that it is for a cause greater than myself) My friend Audra Davis is one of the most influential people in my life. Whether she knows it or not, I have always watched her and admired her for her character. She is absolutely resilient, fearless, and passionate about Jesus. I have always admired her for her faith and have prayed to have even a portion of hers. Being her friend has inspired me to trust and hope in God through every season, because I know she has seen many difficult seasons come and go.

The sale initially did not go the way Audra desired for it to. I listened to her share her feelings of discouragement on the second day, but by the third day I got to hear her share what the Lord revealed to her during that time. There was a mission right in the neighborhood we were hosting the sale in. There was a community we had the opportunity to reach out to and speak to. I watched Audra pour into several people who came in, and saw her give joyfully. It encouraged me to do and be the same with anybody I come across. It reminded me of everything I have learned in my past experiences in Honduras.

I am grateful that I got the opportunity to work with her and the other ministries involved. The funds raised have basically helped me reach my ultimate goal. It’s incredible to see the Lord provide just a few days before I leave. He is faithful and I am overwhelmed by all He has done the past few weeks. And I am SO excited to be heading to Honduras. Even though I really don’t know what to expect in many ways. This will be a new season, possibly a difficult one, but I know it will be awesome. I can’t wait to be there, but I will never forget the ways in which others have poured into me at home. It is because of close friends like Audra that I have seen God work in amazing ways. I hope to be used in such a way for others, wherever I am.

Published August 15, 2017

In just ONE MONTH, I will be beginning a new chapter of my life and will move to Honduras!!! It’s hard to believe that it is so close! I’m also in my final week at the police department that I’ve been working at for the past three years. It’s bittersweet for sure. I’ve been spending the spare time that I have at work preparing for the new position I will be taking on in Honduras by learning about QuickBooks. I have never done anything similar to this outside of tracking what money I spend, so this will be entirely new. There has been a ton of new information thrown at me through this training and still so much that I don’t know about the ministry and its inner-workings. I don’t know about you, but I’ve always hated being the new person at a job and not knowing how to do anything.

When I first worked for the police department on campus, I was very overwhelmed by the amount of information that I had to take in. I was new to the school so I didn’t know where anything was or what departments we had. I didn’t know anything about dispatching or how to handle emergency calls. There is a particular weight and responsibility in knowing that you are a potential life-line to somebody else, and that freaked me out. I let myself freak out before I even began training (very typical of me). A particular person we all worked under as a department was very intimidating and detail-oriented too, so that kept me on my toes. Overall, I felt inadequate for the job and nearly quit within the first few weeks. I had encouraging friends who told me to hang in there until I got a grasp on things. I am so glad that I did and thankful that I waited on the Lord before jumping off ship. This department has become a huge part of my awesome college experience. There was so much growth that needed to take place in my life through this job. I could go through all the many other experiences that God has used to humble me and to have me place my trust in Him, but you get the gist.

Now with certain tasks that I will be taking on in Honduras, I’m not near as reluctant to try new things. The fear of failure doesn’t grip me near as tightly as it used to. What I’ve learned through all of my failings and discomfort in trying new things is that the more vulnerable and honest I am, the easier it is to grow. I spent so much energy before trying to maintain a composed and polished appearance inside and outside of the workplace. It’s really hard to grow when you keep yourself contained in what is familiar and what you can control. The good thing about this new chapter is that I am familiar with Honduras and familiar with the ministry. So even with not understanding all the mechanics of this organization, I at least feel safe in knowing that I will be able to grow there. Failings and all, I know that it’s for a purpose. Knowing that God has called me there helps me to remember that He didn’t send me there because I know everything about it. Overall, I’m just ready to be there and to work for a ministry that is growing. I want the Gospel to be made known to more and more people. This opportunity is beyond exciting even with all of the unknown variables.

I wanted to write to also share about how fundraising has been going. I’m blown away by how quickly these funds have come in. I will soon be close to 75% funded, which is incredible! If you are reading, please join me in prayer for the rest of these funds to come in. Either way, I am flying out in a month!

Thank you for reading, for your prayers, and for your support.

Email: mccaylafleming@gmail.com

Published July 19, 2017